Friday, November 6, 2009

heartsick for a reason

Everything has a purpose.. and I do believe.. I’ve been hurted for once in my life and the pain covered my whole heart for almost a year.. I never listened to other people, even to my parents, aunts, uncles, friends.. I just listened to my heart.. But I was really wrong.. I realized that friends and family are made to make you a better person.. Would you agree with my statement? Well I don’t care.. it’s my own statement.. you can’t change it though..haha!!!!
“A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.”Is this true? What do you think with this quote?Soothing words from friends, heal broken hearts and mend relationships.Before the heartbreaking moments was done, I was too confident of myself.. believing in my worth.. I thought nobody can teach me.. nobody can ever change myself and my life.. It’s me.. It’s me.. I believe in myself… I have lots of friends… They are keeping my company.. Asking for my suggestions in all matters including love.. Of course with much a do.. I am very open and quick on giving my responses.. I give recommendations and comments about their situations even though I didn’t encounter such situations, I just read it through my mind and heard it from others.. But I was really wrong… It’s better to encounter and experience problems rather than reading or listening from others stories.
From the experiences that I have.. I’ve learned a lot.. I’ve learned that God gave me this life and gave me hard situations… for me to enjoy it and became a true person… For me to become a whole… To understand situations.. To admit own mistakes and laugh on it on my own..
Mistakes? hmmm… I’ve done zillions of mistakes in my entire life.. I can’t count my mistakes and I’ve already made my biggest mistake.. At first I felt regret on what I have done but soon I realized that God let me have that mistake for me to learn from it and for me to use that experience for the future…
TO BECOME STRONGER..
TO BE A BETTER PERSON..

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